[ oh. Perhaps this was a mistake. He’s never had kids (real kids), and never needed to give the Talk in any real kind of way, and how does he even know how girl and girl stuff is supposed to work and--
He does not even need this scenario in his head right now, they’re both like little sisters to him, frakking frak. ]
(You know, hon, I don’t think Ilde has a lot of experience with it either, so I think you’ll be okay, you know? Learn together.)
[ or find an actual lesbian to teach you about lesbian affairs. Or at least a female bisexual. ]
(No... we sort of had some other things to talk about. But it's more than that, I know she... she really cares about being pure.
No one cares about that on Pandora. Kissing doesn't seem like a lot compared to... a lot of the things I've seen. But I figure that's not... not really what people do here? I just don't know how people talk about it either. )
[ read the real reason she can filter the hive: someone learned to set a spam filter on their brain at like age 10. ]
[ well crap. He can’t really tell her to go to someone else with something like that, or Ilde, when she doesn’t even know where to start. The fact she brought it up to him at all is saying something about her trust in him. Hurgh, okay, here we go. ]
(You know maybe just tell her exactly that, what you just told me. Just be open about it, you know? Ilde’s not gonna get mad or offended by it.) [ buuuut he also doesn’t want her looking up porn, because that’s not a great depiction of relationships. The sex, maybe. ] (Just go at whatever pace you guys are comfortable with, don’t stress about it. If you feel like you want to do something more, tell her, and if you’re both comfortable with it, then you can start working about getting the technical parts down. )
(I guess so. That's probably the best way forward I guess. I think... It's probably not a good time to worry, we've got the mission to consider first. )
[ a pause then, thinking for a moment, and congrats Sam she is giving you a way out.]
(I'll talk to Cathaway when we get back as well. Just in case there is... Some kind of etiquette in the hive. )
(Right, yeah, probably want to worry about that first. And, you know, if anyone would know, it'd be Cathaway. Seeing as she's... a lot more people than we are.)
[ one of the voices in her head has to know about this stuff, right? better that mom give The Talk, tbh, considering Sam is hardly an authority on lesbian tomfoolery. ]
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He does not even need this scenario in his head right now, they’re both like little sisters to him, frakking frak. ]
( You know, hon, I don’t think Ilde has a lot of experience with it either, so I think you’ll be okay, you know? Learn together. )
[ or find an actual lesbian to teach you about lesbian affairs. Or at least a female bisexual. ]
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( ... I guess I could look up on the echo- extranet. )
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( That, uh. Might not be the best idea. Have you talked to Ilde about it? )
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( No... we sort of had some other things to talk about. But it's more than that, I know she... she really cares about being pure.
No one cares about that on Pandora. Kissing doesn't seem like a lot compared to... a lot of the things I've seen. But I figure that's not... not really what people do here? I just don't know how people talk about it either. )
[ read the real reason she can filter the hive: someone learned to set a spam filter on their brain at like age 10. ]
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[ well crap. He can’t really tell her to go to someone else with something like that, or Ilde, when she doesn’t even know where to start. The fact she brought it up to him at all is saying something about her trust in him. Hurgh, okay, here we go. ]
( You know maybe just tell her exactly that, what you just told me. Just be open about it, you know? Ilde’s not gonna get mad or offended by it. ) [ buuuut he also doesn’t want her looking up porn, because that’s not a great depiction of relationships. The sex, maybe. ] ( Just go at whatever pace you guys are comfortable with, don’t stress about it. If you feel like you want to do something more, tell her, and if you’re both comfortable with it, then you can start working about getting the technical parts down. )
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[ a pause then, thinking for a moment, and congrats Sam she is giving you a way out.]
( I'll talk to Cathaway when we get back as well. Just in case there is... Some kind of etiquette in the hive. )
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[ one of the voices in her head has to know about this stuff, right? better that mom give The Talk, tbh, considering Sam is hardly an authority on lesbian tomfoolery. ]
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[ Poor Cathaway. This isn't probably what she thought she had to deal with. ]