[ well crap. He can’t really tell her to go to someone else with something like that, or Ilde, when she doesn’t even know where to start. The fact she brought it up to him at all is saying something about her trust in him. Hurgh, okay, here we go. ]
(You know maybe just tell her exactly that, what you just told me. Just be open about it, you know? Ilde’s not gonna get mad or offended by it.) [ buuuut he also doesn’t want her looking up porn, because that’s not a great depiction of relationships. The sex, maybe. ] (Just go at whatever pace you guys are comfortable with, don’t stress about it. If you feel like you want to do something more, tell her, and if you’re both comfortable with it, then you can start working about getting the technical parts down. )
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[ well crap. He can’t really tell her to go to someone else with something like that, or Ilde, when she doesn’t even know where to start. The fact she brought it up to him at all is saying something about her trust in him. Hurgh, okay, here we go. ]
( You know maybe just tell her exactly that, what you just told me. Just be open about it, you know? Ilde’s not gonna get mad or offended by it. ) [ buuuut he also doesn’t want her looking up porn, because that’s not a great depiction of relationships. The sex, maybe. ] ( Just go at whatever pace you guys are comfortable with, don’t stress about it. If you feel like you want to do something more, tell her, and if you’re both comfortable with it, then you can start working about getting the technical parts down. )